RaptorMama

Since the babies are 3 1/2 months old now, it seems like a good time for an update!  And since they’ve basically stopped napping unless they’re in my lap, you get instagram pics.  🙂

Xander had surgery on mine and RaptorDad’s 11 year anniversary to repair a bilateral inguinal hernia.  Basically, his intestines were not where they should be.  In an effort to preserve poor Xander’s dignity, I’ll refrain from saying more but you can check wikipedia if you like.  Basically, it went something like this.

Me: Um, can you come take a look at this?

RaptorDad: Yeah, I noticed that.

Me: !!!

We brought it up at their 2 month visit and the nurse practitioner agreed that it looked odd, said there was a possibility that it could be a hernia, and we should have an ultrasound to rule that out.  You know, no big deal.  2 days later (Friday), I took Xander in to get his ultrasound BY HIMSELF!  My parents (who are rockstars) gently suggested that asking my mom to come with me was insane and that I should instead leave Mia and Kate with them.

Xander didn’t quite know what to do with himself having the Moby all to himself!  The ultrasound went quite well aside from Xander peeing all over himself while his diaper was off.  That poor ultrasound tech.  Mia peed on her too a few weeks ago when they were checking her hips.  lol.

Then we went upstairs to get Xander’s blood drawn since the PICU mentioned that his iron was low and we should have it rechecked.  At this point, I’m starting to wish there was a Dell Children’s Bingo card.  I think I would be winning.  For having generally quite healthy babies, I sure seem to be here a lot.

We got there at 12:35.  (This is important later.)  The dr’s office was supposed to have faxed over the orders for his blood draw, but they couldn’t find them/ they weren’t sent.  Don’t know, don’t care.  The end result is that we had to wait for the dr to refax them.  Except that my dr’s office is closed from 12:30- 1:30 for lunch.  ::sigh::  Xander and I waited in the waiting room and I thought to myself that, why yes, my mother is always right and I am glad that I’m not dealing with another hungry tired infant and a bored almost 6 year old.

Poor Xander.  The first time they dug around for a while a couldn’t find a vein.  Then they called in someone else to try.  On the second attempt, she found a vein but it blew.  At which point they told me that they were willing to attempt once more, but that it was up to me.  Um, why is it up to me???  What do I know about this?  I hate being put in that position.  Obviously he needs to have his blood drawn or we wouldn’t be here.  Can you do it or not!  Third time was a charm and they got what they needed.  Spoiler Alert: he has low iron.

We finally finished and went back to my mom’s for a bit.  Xander’s pediatrician called us that afternoon to let us know that he NEEDED SURGERY!  Are you kidding me?!?  I’ve been known to have some major head in the sand moments, but it never occurred to me that he would need surgery.  Not only that, but our appointment with the pediatric surgery group was Wednesday.

After meeting with the surgeon (BINGO!), he confirmed that Xander definitely had a hernia and that it definitely needed surgery.  In 2 days.  Y’all, 2 days is not long enough to freak out about my TINY 8 pounds and change baby needing surgery.  We were also told that we would need to stay over night since they were going to have to put him under general anesthesia and they make the tiny babies stay overnight.  Oh, and we had to be there at 5:45 AM.  And he couldn’t eat after 1:45 AM.  Oh boy.  We went ahead and bought some disposable diapers for both babies.  Xander had to be in them for 2 weeks to let his incision heal and I wasn’t interested in schlepping cloth diapers up to the children’s hospital for Mia.  This is also when we discovered that poor Mia has no junk in her trunk.

We sent Raptor over to my parents’ house on Thursday evening and set our alarms for 1:15 to make sure we fed Xander.  Except that we slept through the alarms.  We woke up in a panic at 2:04 and had about 30 seconds to decide that yes, we were going to let him eat, but only for 5 minutes.  I then panicked for the rest of the night that they were going to cancel his surgery, but it was no big deal.  Like seriously no big deal.

We got to the children’s hospital at 5:45 as instructed and then waited to get the show on the road.  Xander was not pleased when I fed his sister and not him.

They do the tiny babies first and Xander was the tiniest so they brought us room pretty quickly.  The surgeon said that they were going to try to do the surgery with a spinal block (like with a c-section) instead of putting him under with a general, but that he would have to be calm.  I laughed hysterically on the inside, but said that we were good with whatever they thought best.

Then came the time to hand him over at the doors that we couldn’t walk through.  Y’all, I totally cried.  And then I looked at Mia and said to myself, “at least it’s not brain surgery.”  They said it would take about an hour so I sat there and tried to read while watching the minutes tick by.  Luckily, their time estimation was spot on and they let me, Mia, and RaptorDad into recovery.

 

My little Xander!  They let us in as he was waking up and I got to hold him and feed him pretty much right away.  Everything went swimmingly and they were able to do it with the spinal!  I was totally shocked that my, um, emotional boy was calm the whole time.  There ended up being a hernia on both sides that they repaired; I guess it’s common with preemie boys.  This makes me feel both glad that we made it to 37 weeks and they weren’t true preemies, and guilty that I didn’t make it to 38 where we might have been able to avoid this all together.

Since he didn’t have to go under general, they had us stay for the day, but discharged us in the afternoon instead of making us stay overnight.  We went to my parents’ to pick up Kate a day earlier than planned and my mom insisted on RaptorDad and I taking an hour to go get some dinner since it was our anniversary.

Cue all kinds of mommy guilt, but sushi.  Sushi y’all.  A whole (literally) boatload of sushi.  Yum.  🙂

Biggest shocker?  Babies don’t get real pain meds, only tylonal.  I thought that was some serious crap, but everyone assured me it would be fine.  And in the end it was.  We gave him his tylonal on a schedule for the first 24 hours and then we were able to stretch it out.  Within a few days, he was totally back to normal.  We went in for the follow up with the surgeon the following Wednesday and everything looked great!

The biggest pain was dealing with disposable diapers for 2 weeks.  I know it seems like it would be less work, but he spits up so much that it’s not like we were doing any less laundry.  Plus, it’s clear that I’m a disposable diaper newbie.  I felt like they were always leaking.

I meant for this to be an update about both of them, but it’s already gotten quite long so I’ll save Mia’s update for Friday.  🙂

I take pictures of Kate every year with these cardboard letters that spell out DAD.  Then I print them off as 5x7s and put them in a triptych frame from Ikea.  At least that’s the plan.  Let’s not talk about the fact that last year’s pictures are still on my computer, m’kay?

Usually I try to find a fun location, these under a bridge being my favorite, but since the babies can’t sit up yet I figured we were limited to the grass.  Since my mom has a much nicer yard than me, I was planning on taking them there, but I kept putting them off.  First it was just too wet.  Have I mentioned that I contemplated building an ark in June?  Then my mom was out of town.  Then…  well, you get the idea.  Finally I woke up one morning and realized that these pictures weren’t going to take themselves!  And for that matter, our grass might not lush, but it’s green and this year that’s good enough.  😉

I tried to get a shot of all 3 kids, but Kate acted like laying in the grass was tantamount to laying on a bed of nails, so those shots didn’t turn out so well.  I think this one of her up against the fence is pretty cute though.  And it gives a bit of contrast to the pictures of the babies.

I initially wanted a pic of all 3 kids, and then either one of each baby or 2 of the babies together, but Kate was super offended by that idea.  lol.  Next year, maybe I’ll do DADDY so I can include more pictures. 😉

 

Like I said on Wednesday, I decided to split our trip to the splash pad in to 2 layouts largely because the light was so pretty where the babies were sleeping and I was having too much fun with my camera.  🙂

Why yes, I have started moving the twins in to their 0-3 month clothes and yes, they are enormous on them.  But their matching newborn onesies are mostly long sleeve and it’s too hot for that if we’re going to be outside.  Besides, the whales are freaking adorable.  🙂

Let me know what you think!  🙂

 

I ::heart:: rainbows.  I was looking through my older October Afternoon B sides to mix and match with my new OA Poolside papers and realized that I was halfway to a rainbow based on what I had already pulled out.  Then I dug through my washi tape and the idea for this layout was born.

I freaking love it.  It’s in my top ten favorite layouts for sure.

It all started with the blue stars on the orange paper.  It was the first scrap I came across while I was originally experimenting with the texture medium and stencils and after it dried I realized that it actually looked pretty cool.  Most of the stars got covered up with the layering, but I like just seeing them peek out.

On Friday I’ll have a layout up with the twins hanging on their blanket this same day at the splash pad.  Originally they were all meant to be on the same layout, but I decided to go ahead and split them because I wanted to tell 2 different stories.

 

 

My name is RaptorMama and I’m (newly) addicted to mixed media scrapbooking.  My new box of goodies included some stencils (more coming tomorrow!  They were backordered.) and I’ve had a blast playing with them.  Here’s my first layout.

I’m also currently loving the gold glitter paper (I punched all of the hearts out of the center of that mat before adhering my photo) and the mini doilies.  I didn’t realize when I ordered them, but they come in a pack of 75!  I’m totally getting some more colors the next time I place an order.  🙂

Aside from taking a while to dry, the stencil was actually pretty easy to use.  I can’t wait to experiment with it some more!

 

 

I love summer layouts. 🙂  I always end up with a ton of layouts for the summer months. In 2014, I ended up with 17 layouts in June and 15 in July.  September (admittedly a slow month even for me) will probably end up with only 3 or 4.  Partly because I love playing with my waterproof camera, and partly because I always love the summer lines.

I love these pics of Kate and my Dad.  🙂  I played around with some stamping on this layout and I think I like it.

 

Looks like Xander has eared himself a referral to ECI.  Mia was having Occupational Therapy today (she’s doing amazing by the way) and I asked her therapist (who I love) to take a look at Xander because I was worried about him having torticollis (basically tight neck muscles.)  This can result in the dreaded flat head and helmet.  I’m glad I asked because, sure enough, he does.  I got the ball rolling today to get him referred.  Incidentally, I <3 ECI.  What a great program.  They come out to our house to do the therapy and it’s ridiculously cheap.

And here’s a quick, simple layout.  I have a ton of these smaller chipboard frames (I always seem to use the 4×4 ones up first) so I decided to go crazy and use a bunch on one layout.  I used TurboCollage to put 6 2×2 pics onto one 4×6 canvas and printed it on my selphy.

I like that it allowed me to use a lot of pictures on one layout while still leaving some room for a little bit of embellishment.

I’m still chipping away at last summer, in fact I finished July this morning!  Here’s a layout from Kate’s dance camp recital.

I’m loving the gold!  I was anti-gold for so long that I have amassed quite the selection of embellies, most of them from various Crate Paper collections.  I also made liberal use of my gold stickles.  So fun!

 I really like how this little cluster turned out.

 

I had too much fun with this layout.  🙂

I’m loving the vertical lines of embellishments.  Super easy and super fun.  Plus, I get to use up lots of older product that I still like, like these Prima flowers!  I still love these.  Honestly, I wish they still made them.  I’m actually in danger of running out of a few colors.  🙂

I put a dot of stickles in the middle since I didn’t want to deal with the mini brads.  Then I threw on some wood veneers, and some more DIY epoxy flairs.  I also did a bit of stamping on this layout, both for the flairs and across the washi tape at the bottom.  Overall I’m pleased with this layout.  🙂

 

 

I’ve been watching some kill-a-kit videos and it’s inspiring me to try to use stuff up instead of hoarding it.  It’s also really making me want to subscribe to a kit, but that’s not in the budget. Plus, I probably have enough supplies to start my own kit club.  lol.

I’ve almost used up all of these 4th of July papers!  And I went wild and used the whole package of Jolee’s embellishments.  🙂  I might actually need to buy new 4th of July paper for next year.  lol.

I actually completed all of my June goals!  It’s a Christmas miracle!  🙂  Now for some July ones.

1. Finish those dang felt letters!  I’ve actually been working on this one and it’s now at the top of my priority list.
2. Scrap July 2014.  This is my last month with a lot of layouts.
3. Scrap August 2014.  Medium number of layouts.  I got pregnant this month, went back to work, and Raptor started kindergarten.  The pickings are slim for scrapping starting with September so catching up will move quicker.
4. Work on 2015 Project Life.  I want to get at least 6 layouts done so I can make some progress towards catching up.
5. Take DAD pics.  Yes I know I’m terribly behind as these were meant for Father’s Day.  I wonder how long I can use the infant twin excuse?
6. Actually print this year’s (and last year’s!) DAD pics.  Since I’ll be ordering oversized prints anyway, I want to go ahead and order the 8x8s for Kate’s school book too.
7. Clean my bedroom.  Y’all.  I don’t even know where to begin.  lol.
8. Do some recent layouts.  I want to journal some in the moment while I remember this stuff.
9. Trash bag a day.  We want to move within the next 3 years before Mia starts preschool.  (Raptor is at an awesome charter school and we’ll keep her there, but Mia will need to start public preschool when she turns 3 and we’d like to be zoned for a better school before that happens.)  Before we can even think about listing our house we need to do some major decluttering!  And even if it’s years before we list, I figure we might as well start now.
10. Blog!  Keep up with the Monday/ Wednesday/ Friday posting.